For a male, your primary purpose in life should be to concentrate on yourself, your ambitions, and your values, and to be of great worth to yourself; women can come second. However, most guys today prioritize women and overlook what they are supposed to do.
Most guys are constantly too present for women, which is why they are never respected or taken seriously by women. A woman would never take you seriously if you are too available.
Women are drawn to men who are focused on themselves, but how would you be able to focus on yourself when you still want to be with her, when you always want to call her and check in on her, and why are you even contacting her is she that indispensable? Remind yourself what value does this woman have to avail me, but other than, she is just like every other girl.
If you’re always free to a woman, checking in on her and simply spending every one of your moment with her, she will notice and feel that you really don’t have anything efficient and purposeful going on in your life, and then she will perceive you as anxious and you’re not a person of great value, since a person of great value is concerned with establishing himself, and the harsh fact is that she will only stay with a man of significant importance, but what you’ve been displaying is that you’re not really a person of high value.
Having to spend time with a woman may entice you, but the idea of her starting a relationship with you, given how especially keen you are already on her, might well disgust her. When you spend most of the time with a woman, she tends to start to see you as a creepy, vulnerable, and impoverished man with poor standards and low levels of self.
Rather than focusing just on women, concentrate on establishing yourself and generating value for yourself, since as a male, your primary aim and aim in life is to establish strong worth for yourself. A moderate man doesn’t at all devote all of his attention to a woman he loves; rather, he devotes only a portion of it.
Once you establish respect for yourself, she will just want to be around you and will always be committed to you. I’m a witness of this, so I can assure you that getting too attached to women doesn’t get you anywhere.
Concentrate towards becoming a moderate man since women are just drawn to such types of men and would want to spend time with them. Implement this prior learning to your daily lives and observe your world of dating reform. Concentrate on yourself first see women actually try to somehow get you and still being present for you.