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Reasons Why Men Lose interest in a Woman

So you have met a nice guy and things are going well between you. He does his best for you and he makes all kinds of plans with you and you know for sure that he likes you.

Then suddenly out of nowhere. It seems to lose interest, he makes less contact with you and he is not trying as hard anymore.

What can you do when he is losing interest in you? I can imagine that this is confusing and frustrating for you.Here are the reasons why men lose interest in a woman:

1: He believes things are going too easy. This might sound a bit weird because if he likes you, it shouldn’t matter at all?That is not completely true.A man likes to ‘hunt’, he wants to feel that he has conquered you.

A man loses interest when a relationship is taken for granted. This can happen after one date, but sometimes also after a long time in the relationship.

When he has the feeling that he doesn’t have to make the effort, he won’t appreciate you as highly. He will value you less and is less likely to enter into a relationship with you if you just started dating. So he literally loses interest in you.

2: Work is currently more important to him. A relationship takes up (a lot of) time and energy, and there are only 24 hours in a day.

When his career is more important to him, he will eventually wonder if your relationship is worth the effort. And he will think: “This relationship is all good, but it affects my career.” What he does next is up to him. But in a case like this, try not to put too much pressure on him.

When men lose interest, it is often because they feel too much pressure. So to add even more pressure is not a good idea. Even if you want to know where you stand at that moment, give him some space to make a choice. This way you will increase the chance that he will eventually choose you.

3: He no longer likes you. You might have heard the expression that you will truly get to know each other once you are in a relationship. And that is correct.

When you are only dating you can hide things from each other, but this is a different story once you are in a relationship. You (literally) expose yourself to each other.

So it is possible that he will see you in a completely different light. And this actually puts him off a bit. He is probably afraid to tell you this, but when it happens, you will notice that he loses interest in you.

4: He was never interested in a serious relationship.This reason is not very nice, simply because it may be painful for you. But men are sometimes just looking for:A person to talk to.A playmate in bed. Someone who gives him attention.In other words, he was never interested in a serious relationship.

So the moment you bring this up, is the moment he loses interest in you. In this case, it is best to let him go.Forcing a relationship with someone who never really liked you, is asking for trouble. And let’s be honest, you deserve so much more.

5: You suddenly expect more from him. Men want to feel like they can make choices freely.It is possible that you gave him this freedom during the dating phase.But suddenly something changes:

The fear of being trapped in the relationship will freak him out and make him become distant. He will pull away and slowly lose his interest in you. So my advice is: Slow down. Let him find out in time how nice you are and don’t try to rush things.

6: He needs more time to himself. When you are in love with a man you want to spend as much time with him as possible. But what about him? Does he want the same?

He might be becoming aware that he is spending less and less time with his friends, and his friends keep complaining about it to him.Then he suddenly realizes how much time he spends with you and thinks:“I want more time to myself.”

He’ll pull away from you, and when he is pulling away from you it seems like he is losing interest in you. But you shouldn’t worry about it, just give him some time for himself.

7: You behave differently than when you first got together. Chances are you don’t even notice this yourself because this simply happens unconsciously.

During the dating phase you might have been: More relaxed because you didn’t have high hopes yet. Casual because the relationship wasn’t all that important to you yet.

So you very naturally and unconsciously come across as laid back and more relaxed. So it is important to continue to be yourself and behave like you were during this time, and treat him like you did when you first met.

8: He thinks you have developed some irritating habits.

You’ve probably heard someone say that you should ‘just be yourself’ at all times. This sounds great but we both know that this is an impossible task.

What I am trying to say is that we are constantly changing, sometimes without even realizing it.

Don’t ask him what he thinks of you, as he will feel obliged to give a positive response. Instead, ask him the above question. Then he will be more likely to give you an honest answer.

9: You are trying to change him and he notices this. Even if you have the right intentions, when you try to change him, it will really irritate him. He likes you, but once he notices that you want to change him, he will distance himself.

I do understand that sometimes you want him to tell you what he’s thinking, or consider your feelings a bit more.

The problem is in the way you are trying to change him.

10: He feels like you don’t need him or appreciate him.

This will set his alarm bells off. He doesn’t feel important and respected at that moment, which is making him more distant.

It is very ironic but men can lose their interest because they have a feeling that the woman is not interested.

You can easily avoid this by telling him that you need him. I don’t mean that you should literally say this to him, but ask for his help now and again. Even when you don’t really need his help, the point is that it will make him feel appreciated.

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