The most difficult element of most women’s love lives isn’t meeting or building an attraction with men; it’s creating that deep connection and rush of strong emotions and intense sensations that propels them from casual dating to serious, romantic engagements. Physical attraction diminishes with time, and it’s the depth of our emotional connection with each other, or the absence thereof, that determines whether or not a relationship will last.
1. Don’t jump into bed with him too quickly.
If you’re constantly finding that your relationships fizzle out before you can form a strong emotional bond with a man you like, it could be because you’re having intercourse too soon in the relationship. You may feel compelled to have intercourse with a guy you like in order to ‘keep him’ or’make him like you more,’ but no one should be with you just because they expect you to have intercourse with them. You’re much more valuable than that.
2. Create emotional safety for him.
Creating emotional safety means creating a space where someone can express their thoughts, feelings, and desires without feeling judged. When men refer to a woman as being easy to talk to, they mean that they’re able to say things they typically wouldn’t share with anyone else, because they know they won’t be made to feel judged.
3. Show care or concern
When you show care or concern to a man, he becomes attracted to you. A man practically leans on a lady that shows him care. You can show a man care by calling, checking up on him/Visiting him, asking after him through his friends, and texting him.
4. Keep things light and playful
People will remember you based on your shared experiences. The more pleasant and enjoyable experiences you share, the more those sensations get associated with you. Relationship timelines varies between men and women. Women are more likely to rush into partnerships, anxious to define their status and skip over many of the pleasurable aspects of dating, whereas males are more likely to take their time deciding whether or not they want to pursue the relationship further.
5. Commit to this relationship.
If you really want a relationship to work with someone, you have to take a leap of faith and commit to it. You have to commit knowing that you could get hurt and it might not work out, but that the way you feel is worth pursuing this despite the risk. By committing, it means that you’re not still scanning the room for someone else who might take your interest. If you’ve been dating multiple people but really want it to work with one of them, you need to cut ties with the rest and focus your attention on just him.
6. Be a good listener
You can attract a man by conversing with him and listening more than you speak. Every man requires a confidante. Someone with whom he may share his darkest secrets. Make sure you’re capable of being that person. When he is going through a difficult period, be there for him and don’t add to his anxiety.